Calling all Best Friends

Hello my faithful fellow bloggers, 

     This post today is to remind my very bestest friend that no matter what I will always be there for you. We recently had a sort of falling out and although we still need to work things out it is important for you to know that I am always here to protect your honor and your feelings :) I love you more than tropical skittles and sour patch kids. More than Julian and Tobuscus. And WAY than Channing Tatum. Here goes everything!
 

The Best Friend Code :

1. When you're depressed, I'll scare the crap out of you so you're too busy calming your heart rate to keep being depressed.

2. When you trip and fall flat on your face, I'll point and laugh, and if anyone else dares, I'll beat them up to a pulp.

3. When you get a boyfriend you really like, I'll tease you endlessly about him, and when you're not looking, I'll march up to him and warn, "She's my best friend; you break her heart, I'll break your face.

4. When you're blue, I will try my best to dislodge whatever is choking you.

5. When you're standing by the water or on the diving board, I'll push you into the water and laugh at you.

6. When you say "I hate you!" I'll respond "I love you too."

7. We can never discuss anything serious because whenever we try, we always end up rolling around in laughter.

8. My dream future always includes you.

9. When you grin, I know it's not necessarily because you're happy, but because you're plotting something, and it involves me.

10. When you are trying to avoid somebody, I will invite that somebody to your house, lock you two in your room and demand you make amends or else I'm not unlocking the door.

11. I will humiliate myself to make you laugh when you're sad.

12. When I discover an incredibly scary video on the Internet or whatnot, I will send it to you just to freak you out.

13. I love to embarrass you.

14. When we laugh, we laugh together. When we cry, we cry together.

15. I can see right through you; I can read your mind; I always know how you feel when I'm in your presence.

16. I know more about you than you do yourself.

17. Whenever you're planning a prank, no matter how devious it might be, I want to be a part of it as long as you're sure you want to go through with it.

18. When we play the Trust game, and you're falling into my arms, I won't catch you and I'll laugh when you topple over onto the ground, but when you fall in real life, I'll always be there for you.

19. I will always be there for you, no matter how many times I make fun of you.

And finally the most important of all. The big kahuna ..........drum roll please.........

20. Hoes before Bros:

        Choosing Hoes before bros means that you don’t choose a boy over your friend. Don’t cancel your plans with your friend or let your friend down just because you want to be with someone you’re interested in.

If the guy you are interested in is really special to you, you can always ask your friend first and they’ll likely understand. But a true friend doesn’t drop you to be with someone else.

" A good friend will visit you in hospital and say “Get well soon ” and leave. But a true friend sits near you and says “The doctor is hot, take your time to get well.”

I love ya sister! Stay Golden.
Yours Truly,

The Travelbug

The Perfect Man Checklist

    I believe that everyone has a soul mate. There is someone out there for everyone. Whether you find true love once or twice, someone will always be there for you. Which is why to narrow down our search my friends and I made A Perfect Man Checklist. Things he HAS to have .... and things he really needs to forget.

1. Smiles with his eyes.
2. Funny
3. Smells reallly good. 
4. Not Super Dumb 
5. Taller Than Me 
6. Likes To Cuddle
7. Can Pull off Aviator Sunglasses
8. Hot Accent 
9. College Graduate 
10. Has a Great Sense of Style 
11. Gives Good Massages 
12. Has good Morals 
13. Never Ever Wears Sunglasses inside 
14. Has to be Rigid ;) 
15. Gorgeous Eyes 
16. Takes you out on a date where you dance in the street and make your own music. 
17. Would Change Species for me ( think the Notebook) 
18. Has to be EXACTLY like the guy off of the Notebook .    
19. Drives a Motorcycle 
20. Has Cute Dimples 
21. Is Super Romantic 
22. Beautiful Gorgeous Hair 
23. Musical Abilities             
24. Cares about my feelings first 
25. Buys you chocolate when your on Your period 
26. Very Protective 
27. Wipes away my tears 
28. Likes to watch CRAZY youtube Videos 
29. Can Laugh about stuff
30. Completely Honest  
31. Writes Handwritten Letters 
32. Gives a Romantic Marriage Proposal 
33. Knows Everything About me 
34. SPONTANEOUS 
35. Drops everything to spend time with me 
36. Tells you your beautiful when your feeling your lowest 
37. Witty 
38. Clean ( no dirt under fingernails and smells yummy) 
39. Nice to his mom 
40. Loves Animals 
41. Loves Indian Food 
42. Not Clingy
43. Comfortable with Silence 
44. LOVES to TRAVEL 
45. Nerdy :) 

Feel Free to add some qualifications :) We are always updating our Perfect Guy Checklist.  

                  Yours Truly, 
                                  The Travelbug  

Girl Code: Live it, Love it, Learn it.

No, all you skeptics out there, girl code is a real thing! You may think that the so called "girl code" is only alive in the Sisterhood of The Traveling Pants or any other chick flick, but you are sorely mistaken. The Girl Code has bee abused, misused, and taken advantage of so many times that most teenage girls don't even know the first thing about it. So let me explain: 

     Rule Number 1 and most IMPORTANT out of all: NEVER under any circumstances no matter how "bored" or "tired" you are (ehmmm) date your friend's; ex's, past crushes, guys who have humiliated/used her and guys she currently fancies. Violation of this code could cause a massive rupture if not total destruction of your friendship.

Rule Number 2: Never put your boyfriend before your friends. Always make time for your friends in order to lead a healthier and more balanced life. Whether you plan a girls makeover night every week or a movie night keep a ritual and try to honor it. DO NOT CHOOSE A MAN OVER YOUR BEST FRIEND! If you change boyfriends so fast they rarely achieve name status who do you think is going to be there for you in the end? Yup. That's right. Your friend.

Rule Number 3: Respect yourself first, because loving you the way you are is most important. Nuff said. 

Rule Number 4: You are never to diss your friends boyfriend except to nod or lightly agree when she decides he is being an A-hole. The only exception is when a guy cheated or dumped

your friend and only then it is exceptional for you to claim he isn't good enough, and that she deserves better as well as reminding her that he was an A-hole anyway.
And Finally Rule Number 5: Always remember who was there for you throughout all of your hardships and be sure to return the favor when they are down in the dumps. 
"Arms are for hugging. Boys are for kissing. Sluts are for dissing, and best friends are for when your boyfriend disses you for the slut and you really need a hug." Anonymous

If you or your friend ever need a little refresher on the codes of a girl then step right up and read away! This Code might just save you from making one of the biggest mistakes of your life. Stay Golden ;)

Yours Truly,

The Travelbug.

Well Whad'ya Know... I'm Blogging!

     First and foremost I would like to thank Not-So-Average-Teen for introducing me to another completely time consuming activity. If you are interested in her insanely awesome blog take a gander: http://lifeofthenotsoaverageteen.blogspot.com/.

     Life. What a loaded word. Many people describe it differently. Me? Well I describe it as one chaotic, amazingly fun, unpredictable, and sometimes worrisome chance to get to know and love other people.  

     I have a somewhat annoyingly positive outlook on life. I have been raised in a family that loves each other very much. I am pretty sheltered, but don't get me wrong. Life has been super exciting too! I have lived in 5 different states and have been to 6 different schools! WHOA BABY! I have lived in Nevada, Alaska, California, Montana, and Florida. In that order too! Can you say whip lash mom and dad? I have also traveled all across the states. Name a state and I've probably been to it. Do it. I dare you :) I have also traveled to Mazatlan, Mexico, the Bahamas, the Caribbean, and Canada. I was supposed to go to Spain ...but that's a different story for another time.

     Well This has been fun but I'm not gonna lie, I'm am pretty tired and this blog is all about honesty so you know I'm telling the truth. Until next time faithful bloggers! Stay golden ;) 

Yours Truly,

            The Travelbug.